I don’t like argument and am
never good at it. What is the point in arguing? Winning an argument doesn’t
really make you a stronger person. In real after winning an argument will it
helps to accomplish things? You might win an argument, still nothing can be
done, and a fact is still a fact. Real friend wouldn’t want to argue with
friends, argument most probably will cause unhappiness, and a true friend
wouldn’t want that to happen their friends. A true friend will treasure
friendship and wouldn’t want to spoil or cause damage to friendship. They
preserve and improve friendship. Yes it is true that only true friend will accept
us as a whole, the good and the bad of who we are but it doesn’t mean that we
should keep on expressing all our negativity to the people surrounding especially
those close friend that really care for us by continuingly hurting and hurting
them non-stop and throwing tantrum on them? No one was born to owe anyone
anything. Shouldn’t we too need to take care of the feeling of the friend
around us? It is really irresponsible if to label a person as not a true friend
if they cannot withstand your bad while when you keep hurting and hurting them
repeatedly without trying any effort at all at least to preserve the
friendship. True friend might point out your shortage and negativity when they
see one but will never argue with you or force you to accept their idea. Everyone
has their own free will.
I treasure people surrounding
me, yes I might ignore many things at the same time particularly emotional
fluctuation from others as I will be too sensitive and susceptible to that, I
need to protect myself in order to stay happy before I can bring happiness to
the people surrounding me
